Halloween Prep: 3 Sexy Ideas to have the Best Halloween Night this Year
Whether you love it or hate it, there’s something impossibly undeniable about Halloween - it is a very controversial celebration! Among all other controversies, there’s a frequent debate whether or not Halloween is a children’s festivity or an 18+ holiday, taking into account all the things that can take place this spooky night - Halloween can be the sexiest day of the year if you do it right!
So, here’s a couple of ideas to get your Halloween night started right - take advantage of them and improvise!
Costume Role-Play - Dress Up, Tease, Fantasize, Improvise!
They say that nothing is without its faults, but maybe the concept of Halloween proves otherwise, especially since Halloween possesses a huge benefit - you choose your mask, stick to it and act it out for an entire night according to your interpretation!
Whether you’re going for the more predictable Sexy Kitten-, Nurse-, or a Policewoman-look or anything less elemental, other people’s perception of your outfit depends entirely on how you decide to pull it off! Don’t reveal everything at once - leave the intrigue for when it’s just you and your partner!
Costumes can be a great start of a role-play too - the night doesn’t have to end once the Halloween party does! Let the fun begin behind the closed doors - tease your partner, set your boundaries, talk about your fantasies - sexual role play is a popular millennial reverie!
There are some common role-play scenarios - stripping, student-teacher & nurse-patient plays, Fifty Shades of Grey… but don’t hesitate to think bigger than that - you’d be surprised at some things your partner might have been too reluctant to talk about!
Seduce your partner, overcome inhibitions - role-playing creates a divide between the you that you’re used to and the you that you want your partner to experience!
Once you’ve established your terms and got into the role-play, your partner will likely be just as into it as you are, and any potential judgment or criticism that threatened you before will be out of the picture.
Try BDSM!
BDSM - bondage & discipline, dominance & submission… sounds suitable as for a Halloween challenge, doesn’t it? BDSM is kinky and can quickly spiral out of control without you or your partner even realizing it, so it’s important to introduce safe words and decide upon what’s consensual.
Consent & safe-words are essential for making sure that both parties are comfortable with what’s happening throughout the act. The words don’t have to have anything to do with sex, as long as you agree upon what they signify, they can be anything.
Some couples use the traffic light system, as their safe-word SafetyNet, where Red, Yellow, and Green are used to communicate how each one of you is feeling (Red - stop; Yellow - slow down or pause; Green - go for it!).
This system works exceptionally well for couples, who try out the dominant/submissive dynamic, where the dominant partner carries out whatever’s been agreed upon, meanwhile, the role of the submissive is to trust, learn and allow their lover to dictate.
When it comes to Halloween, BDSM may tie in perfectly with the role-play. Since Halloween is the perfect time for experimenting, BDSM might be a perfect one-off, but memorable means to spicing up your sex life. Or, who knows, maybe BDSM will become the next regular?
Sex Toys
Sex Toys go hand-in-hand BDSM & Role-Play. So, as long as you’re giving things a go this Halloween, why not test some sex toys to achieve the full package?
Many Netflix & Chill fans would’ve already watched either Fifty Shades of Grey & 365 Days or Below Her Mouth (LGBTQ+). If these titles don’t sound familiar, then Halloween night is just getting started for you!
These 3 movies are just a few to introduce you to new ideas, act as your inspiration and encouragement, and turn you and your lover on! So what are you waiting for? Once you watch at least one, sex toys will become your fantasy! So have fun!
Even if that wasn’t the case before, the ideas of sensory deprivation & sensation play will appeal to you, once your movie marathon is over! You’ll be likely to want to play around with blindfolds, earplugs, and even handcuffs, so be prepared!
Go crazy with it and explore your sexuality - tonight is the perfect occasion to do so! But do remember to maintain limits to make sure both you and your lover are comfortable throughout the act!
Enjoy your Halloween and make sure to turn tonight into the sexiest and hottest night of the year!
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Written by Lisa Levytska
